Can You Romance Yennefer After Telling Triss "I Love You"?

I‘ve received countless questions from fervent Witcher 3 players asking: can I successfully romance Yennefer after telling Triss "I love you" and cementing that relationship?

As an expert on nearly all things Witcher, I‘m here to give you a definitive answer.

No, you cannot romance Yennefer down the line if you confirm your love for Triss Merigold. Doing so officially locks you into a committed partnership with Triss through the end of the game.

This guide will explain why, detail how to successfully woo Triss, analyze the consequences if you try for both sorceresses, and provide my recommendations for getting the outcomes you desire. Let‘s dive in!

Triss vs. Yennefer – Geralt‘s Two Loves

As evidenced in the books and lore, Geralt of Rivia‘s one true love is Yennefer of Vengerberg, his soulmate through the magic of djinn wishes and decades-spanning, tempestuous romance.

However, Geralt has also enjoyed an on-again, off-again sexual relationship with his dear friend Triss Merigold, another powerful sorceress.

Triss harbors unrequited romantic love for the witcher but keeps it hidden, while Geralt cares for her deeply but seems to associate their trysts as just "friends with benefits."

In The Witcher 3, players must decide if Geralt will stay committed to his destiny with Yennefer or start a new romance with the patiently waiting Triss. Both have merits as partners, so it‘s no easy decision!

Yennefer‘s Depth versus Triss‘ Warmth

Yennefer represents a deep, enduring connection full of passion – but also periods of bitterness, reunions and ruptures. Triss offers
affectionate support smoothed by patience over turmoil.

Ultimately it comes down to player preference: a soul-stirring rollercoaster ride with Yennefer, or tranquil seas sailing with Triss.

What Happens If You Try To Romance Both

You‘ll find out the hard way why sorceresses make dangerous enemies!

Should you attempt to string both Triss and Yennefer along, casually seducing them between quests steps, they will inevitably discover your two-timing before game‘s end.

When the time comes to confront Alduin together, Triss and Yennefer will proposition Geralt…at the same time. They will ask if he‘d like to "have them both" now, seeing as he‘s apparently been bedding the pair of them all across the North.

Yet rather than resulting in a pleasant menage a trois, the sorceresses swiftly realize the manipulation at play. They spurn Geralt together, teleporting away and leaving the bamboozled witcher alone as they set off to rescue Ciri on their own.

Why You Shouldn‘t Attempt Dual Romance

I don‘t recommend trying to seduce both, as master witchers shouldn‘t deceive their lovers!

While the dramatic confrontation and denial of not one but two beautiful sorceresses makes for an entertaining story, ultimately this choice deprives players of deeper romantic content with either.

Some wish to experience Geralt weathering the harsh consequences of his infidelity. However, in terms of relationships most would prefer to commit to Triss or Yennefer and gain the comfort of their companionship.

How To Successfully Romance Triss

If you wish to romance Triss Merigold rather than Yennefer, cementing a joyful (albeit non-canon) partnership with the delightful sorceress, here are the steps to follow:

Throughout Novigrad:

• Complete Triss‘ side quests "A Matter of Life and Death" and "Now or Never"
• During "Now or Never," tell Triss to stay in Novigrad when prompted
• Optional: Tell Triss you love her too when she confesses her feelings
• Do NOT openly romance Yennefer yet

In Skellige Isles:

• Progress "The King is Dead" main quest in Kaer Trolde
• Initiate "Cave of Dreams" encounter with Triss
• Confirm romantic love for Triss if you did not do so already in "Now or Never"

By Game End:

• Finish Triss related side quests like "No Place Like Home"
• DO NOT tell Yennefer you love her too!!

Following these steps will ensure you successfully initiate and maintain a monogamous romance with Triss, culminating in her loving presence in one of the games finale endings.

Relationship Status Checkpoints

As you can see, dedicating exclusively to Triss while experiencing all romantic opportunities with her can lead to a wonderfully joyful partnership.

Why You Cannot Romance Yennefer Afterward

However, once vowing your love to Triss – even if not saying the golden "I love you" words outright – the pathway to romance Yennefer becomes forever closed.

Any attempt to seduce the raven-haired sorceress after bedding Triss will result in Yennefer rebuffing Geralt‘s advances. She senses his divided heart and refuses to serve as any witcher‘s second choice.

While you can still interact platonically with Yennefer and even complete her related questline, a genuine romance culminating in the "Yennefer‘s Room" endings will be impossible.

The Critical Romance Fork

During "Now or Never," telling Triss you love her cements your choice right then and there. Even just asking her to stay in Novigrad while sparing verbal commitment still blocks you from obtaining Yennefer‘s endings later.

While subtle, initiating a physical relationship with Triss – perhaps just a first kiss – is also enough to close off a future Yennefer romance.

So if you wish to preserve both relationship routes, refrain from any overtly romantic interactions with Triss until certain you don‘t desire to remain faithful to Yennefer instead.

Expert Tips and Recommendations

Based on my years analyzing the complex romantic possibilities across countless playthroughs, here is my guidance:

If You Wish To Romance Triss

Follow the quest steps outlined earlier to experience a joyful partnership with everybody‘s favorite chestnut-haired mage. Triss will provide warmth, comfort and playful affection through the rest of Geralt‘s adventures.

If You Wish To Romance Yennefer

Exercise restraint with Triss until ready to decide! Be careful not to lead her on too strongly. I suggest limiting intimacy to flirtatious interactions to avoid accidentally triggering her romance path.

Yennefer can withstand a dalliance or two as long as Geralt‘s heart remains hers alone. Later, when prompted, tell Yennefer you love only her to cement the soulmate relationship destiny foretold.

If Unsure or Want Both Endings

I recommend separate playthroughs pursuing each romance individually. Experience the fire and passion offered by Yennefer, then start anew to relax in Triss‘ warmth without worry of consequences.

While attempting dual romance in one playthrough entertains some, most feel deprived by the absence of deeper romantic experiences should their manipulation get discovered!

What About Ciri or Other Romances?

Related questions I often receive:

Can Ciri be romanced? No, Ciri is Geralt‘s surrogate daughter – though a sweet familial relationship can form. A would-be suitor for Ciri may appear based on player choices.

Are there consequences for romancing Keira, Shani or others? No, casual dalliances will not impact a dedication to Triss or Yennefer once secured. Feel free to kiss the occasional passing beauty – but keep your heart true!

And remember: once giving that heart to Triss Merigold, witchers have passed the point of no return with Yennefer of Vengerberg. Choose carefully which remarkable woman most enthralls your spirit!

I hope this guide helps provide clarity for brewing romance dilemmas across the realm. While intricate relationship webs tangle in The Witcher games, by carefully managing overtures through key quests players can choreograph their desired outcome and enjoy everlasting love!

In summary: no, confirming your devotion to Triss Merigold – in word or deed – will close off the option to later romance game protagonist Geralt‘s books-canonical love, Yennefer of Vengerberg. Always follow your heart, but go forth fully informed!

Now off on your adventure, brave witchers – and good fortune! This content creator eagerly awaits tales of who captured your heart when the dust settled. Here‘s to passion and sorcery…and ever prospering in love!